Milestones are important; they give us a sense of order, of accomplishment. This post, for instance, has the distinction of being my 100th on Being In Focus. Unquestionably I feel good about this milestone but it pales in comparison to another that happens to coincide. Ten years ago today, for reasons that remain a complete mystery, this beautiful woman married me. On a gorgeous day atop the rolling hills of Sonoma County and overlooking endless vineyards we exchanged vows before a tiny group of our family and closest friends. Though amazing, that was really just a moment; our marriage was crafted in the days and years that followed.
Along the way we’ve come to know the tiniest things about each other–things no one else on earth is privy to. Good and bad, those little morsels help to forever link us. My wife has been at my side for most of my happiest days; because of our shared journey they’re her moments too and her joys have become mine. We’ve also been together through the darkest nights, holding hands and drawing strength from one another. Sure, there have been tears but ours is a home filled mainly with laughter. Together we’ve made two amazing children and a family that brims with love, happiness and a great deal of silly dancing. I can tell you with all honesty, I’ve never been a part of anything more special, more important than this.
Thank you Sweets, for every moment and for giving me this most wonderful life.
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A lovely post… you deserve credit for being a wonderful husband! It takes a lot of work and love to create a decade of successful marriage – Happy Anniversary and congrats on your 100th post!!
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Thank you so very much Mami–you are too kind!
Congratulations Chris on making three figures in your posts…and for celebrating it with such a beautiful shot of your ‘Sweets’.
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Thanks George–much appreciated!
Congratulations Chris, this is a very special tribute, presented in this form, a wonderful portrait, so delicate so harmonious, technically perfect, yet another declaration of love, compliments and happy day
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Greatly appreciated Fabrizio–thank you!
Congratulations on your 100th post, and happy anniversary. Beautiful portrait
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Thanks Daniel!
Congratulations! Beautiful words and a beautiful woman! There is a thought that we as photographers have the power to leave an imprint on our images – the very essence of our feelings that can be communicated via the photograph. This has that intangible quality.
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Thanks so much Michael. I’ve often felt that we get two glimpses when we see an image. A glimpse into the life of the subject and a glimpse into the life of the photographer. Cheers!
Chris – congratulations on two wonderful milestones! What a beautiful portrait of a beautiful woman. Do something fun tonight!
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Thank you Corinna–we will!
Beautiful shot and congrats to both of you!
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Thank you Francis–appreciate that!
happy 10th year anniversary! I love this picture of Ressia! here’s to many more years of happiness to you and your beautiful family. =)
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Thank you so much Joy!
She’s so lovely and again, so photogenic. Congratulations.
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Thank you Sherri–greatly appreciated!
beautiful portrait and i love your caption
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Many thanks Krunal–I really appreciate the kind words!
A very happy anniversary, Chris!
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Thanks Sumedh!
oh wow,what a great capture,lovely timing to freeze the lovely feel .
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Thank you Ayesha!
9.am in Paris, it’s raining, gloomy sky and you bring such a sun in, thanks to your heart-warming post, Christopher. I don’t know you apart from your blog but i don’t really wonder why she married you : you both seem to be so sunny. This portrait is wonderful because beyond her very natural beauty you caught her vibrant & radiant soul, just like she’s able to catch (sweetly too) yours. Ah, thanks for that beautiful blue sky you offer to a parisian in a february morning, man !
And congrats both for your 100th post & how you run your family fab life. Hugs to the 4 of U****
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Your words mean so much to me–thank you very much k@
Very good portrait! happy anniversary!
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Thank you very much Theys!
A special day today …
And other important moments to share with your wife and children …
A beautiful photo and a beautiful story, Christopher.
Olivier
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That means a lot to me Olivier –thank you very much!
what a lovely expression and a beautiful smile! Very nice portrait!
thanks!
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Thanks so much pasci.it, I really appreciate your comment and visit to my site!
Her smile tells us so much of her happiness. Thanks for sharing and long live your blog and marriage!
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Thank you very much PixeLuz–greatly appreciated!
What a great post! You’re a fortunate man Christopher. And silly dances are the absolute best!
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Thanks so much Doug–I feel very fortunate Indeed!
Beautiful portrait..beautiful smile. What a wonderful tribute!
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Thank you Marcie!
Congratulations. And such a lovely portrait – you are a lucky man.
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Thank you Kala, I sure am!
Best Wishes on your anniversary and congratulations on your 100th posting. The thoughts you have shared here are wonderful and a great tribute to your wife. I hope all your days ahead are just as sweet and strong.
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Thank you very much for the kind words Phil–much appreciated!
lovely portrait and the b/w is a good touch to it. how true, what you have written there. congratulations on both milestones
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Greatly appreciated–thanks Ayush!
hi christopher,
i am sorry that i didnt read the description when i comment on this photograph last time.I just read it and its just out of the world.too sweet and too beautiful words you have choosen.Infact i ask my husband to read it and he just loved what you write.CONGRATULATIONS on what you have achieved.
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Thank you very much for the kind words Ayesha! It really gives me happiness to know that this post has meaning for you. Cheers!
Happy anniversary! Wonderful portrait!
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Thank you very much Tom–I really appreciate the comment and that you visited my site!
For you Christopher and your wife, congrats for your annivesary. Coming April i’m 31 year married with a beautiful women. The most time we have a great time, and every year it works better. Your wife makes a very happy impression, and it is certainly not the only talented photographer .. it must be a special men.
and btw .. very good portrait.
Thanks for the kind words!
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31 years! That’s fantastic Klaus–congratulations in advance! I agree, it must require a special man.
A wonderful anniversary – congratulations and wishes all the best
Congratulations with 100th photos – a wonderful portrait, positive, and gentle
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Thank you very much Andrey–greatly appreciated.
This brought tears to my eyes. You have such a beautiful way with words, Christopher. Wishing you and your beloved many more happy years.
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Thank you very much Diane–I really appreciate that!
beautiful portrait!
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