
“I no doubt deserved my enemies, but I don’t believe I deserved my friends.” ~ Walt Whitman
It’s hard to overstate the importance of friends. They keep us honest when we get too full of ourselves. They remind us that there are other fish in the sea. They bear witness to the most important moments of our lives and those moments are tangibly better for their presence. Sometimes they can even convince you that your photographs are pretty decent and that they should be displayed on a photoblog.
My best friend Daniel is such a person. We’ve known each other since college when he became my roommate after a Canadian proclivity for keeping the room icy-cold drove away my friend Farabi. Not wanting to leave me in a lurch, Farabi made sure I had a decent replacement–a rail-thin art major named Daniel. Twenty four years later it’s impossible to chronicle the twists and turns our lives have taken; we both, for instance, have managed to shake off our dateless nights in college to marry up and raise beautiful families. Our lives may have been complicated and confusing over the years but one constant has been this enduring, enriching friendship.
So yesterday when Daniel, an extremely gifted California Impressionist, told me he was going to be painting in my area I jumped at his invitation to tag along. In dying light, Daniel painted and I photographed the rolling Southern Californian mountain range that makes up much of the Cleveland National Forest. With busy lives, we hardly ever get to enjoy each other’s company that much anymore. It was a rich and rewarding afternoon; we’re grayer, we’re creakier and more weather-worn but for a couple hours yesterday it felt like we were young again and the whole world lay before us.







26 Comments
What a wonderful portrait..and a gift of enduring friendship. Very nice!
Thanks Marcie!
super natural portrait, a fine bw conversion
regards
Thanks so much Pedro–I really appreciate that!
Nice pic and super writing…it’s so heartfelt.
Thanks George!
the portrait is great, simple and honest; but I like the text too, beause he underlines one of the most valueable things to us during our short time on the planet – friendship.
Thanks so much Michael–I agree completely.
This makes me want to call my best friend Ed and take some time to bond. Great post Christopher.
Thanks Mike! Do it–give your buddy a call! =]
Beautiful post and portrait image Christopher. After visiting your blog for a while now, it looks & sounds like you are very fortunate to have wonderful family and friends.
Thanks Kala! There’s no question I feel quite fortunate.
I read this quote by Whitman yesterday, how strange… and i love both your luminous portrait and very touching words giving such a sincere tribute to your best buddy here. Bravo, Christopher, this is a “love story” (if you allow me to enlarge the expression) as I love them, that defies life’s turmoils. Bravo to him too. I mean, long life to your real relationship, precious one as we can see here.
Thanks so much k@! I couldn’t agree more–these are the relationships that keep us steady during life’s turmoils. As I’ve gotten older I can better appreciate how very precious this kind of friendship is.
Real friendship is precious…this post is heart warming
Thanks so much Blue!
cool portrait
Thanks yz!
beautiful expression and a lovely background with bokehs!
Thanks Joshi–appreciate that!
A fine tribute to your friendship! The photo is very nice with great b/w tone gradients. Good job!
Thanks so much Phil!
I like very much Daniel’s concentration you captured here. Great story too!
Thank you PixeLuz–I appreciate that!
This brings to mind; “There is a friend who sticks closer than a brother”.
Thanks Katie!
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