Daniel

“I no doubt deserved my enemies, but I don’t believe I deserved my friends.” ~ Walt Whitman

It’s hard to overstate the importance of friends. They keep us honest when we get too full of ourselves. They remind us that there are other fish in the sea. They bear witness to the most important moments of our lives and those moments are tangibly better for their presence. Sometimes they can even convince you that your photographs are pretty decent and that they should be displayed on a photoblog.

My best friend Daniel is such a person. We’ve known each other since college when he became my roommate after a Canadian proclivity for keeping the room icy-cold drove away my friend Farabi. Not wanting to leave me in a lurch, Farabi made sure I had a decent replacement–a rail-thin art major named Daniel. Twenty four years later it’s impossible to chronicle the twists and turns our lives have taken; we both, for instance, have managed to shake off our dateless nights in college to marry up and raise beautiful families. Our lives may have been complicated and confusing over the years but one constant has been this enduring, enriching friendship.

So yesterday when Daniel, an extremely gifted California Impressionist, told me he was going to be painting in my area I jumped at his invitation to tag along. In dying light, Daniel painted and I photographed the rolling Southern Californian mountain range that makes up much of the Cleveland National Forest. With busy lives, we hardly ever get to enjoy each other’s company that much anymore. It was a rich and rewarding afternoon; we’re grayer, we’re creakier and more weather-worn but for a couple hours yesterday it felt like we were young again and the whole world lay before us.

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26 Comments

  1. Posted November 14, 2010 at 9:48 am by Marcie | Permalink

    What a wonderful portrait..and a gift of enduring friendship. Very nice!

  2. Posted November 14, 2010 at 11:34 am by pedro | Permalink

    super natural portrait, a fine bw conversion
    regards

    • Posted November 14, 2010 at 11:36 am by admin | Permalink

      Thanks so much Pedro–I really appreciate that!

  3. Posted November 14, 2010 at 1:23 pm by george | Permalink

    Nice pic and super writing…it’s so heartfelt.

  4. Posted November 14, 2010 at 3:43 pm by Michael | Permalink

    the portrait is great, simple and honest; but I like the text too, beause he underlines one of the most valueable things to us during our short time on the planet – friendship.

    • Posted November 14, 2010 at 3:55 pm by admin | Permalink

      Thanks so much Michael–I agree completely.

  5. Posted November 14, 2010 at 3:55 pm by Mike Morgan | Permalink

    This makes me want to call my best friend Ed and take some time to bond. Great post Christopher.

    • Posted November 14, 2010 at 3:58 pm by admin | Permalink

      Thanks Mike! Do it–give your buddy a call! =]

  6. Posted November 14, 2010 at 8:42 pm by Kala | Permalink

    Beautiful post and portrait image Christopher. After visiting your blog for a while now, it looks & sounds like you are very fortunate to have wonderful family and friends.

    • Posted November 14, 2010 at 8:56 pm by admin | Permalink

      Thanks Kala! There’s no question I feel quite fortunate.

  7. Posted November 14, 2010 at 9:32 pm by k@ | Permalink

    I read this quote by Whitman yesterday, how strange… and i love both your luminous portrait and very touching words giving such a sincere tribute to your best buddy here. Bravo, Christopher, this is a “love story” (if you allow me to enlarge the expression) as I love them, that defies life’s turmoils. Bravo to him too. I mean, long life to your real relationship, precious one as we can see here.

    • Posted November 14, 2010 at 9:59 pm by admin | Permalink

      Thanks so much k@! I couldn’t agree more–these are the relationships that keep us steady during life’s turmoils. As I’ve gotten older I can better appreciate how very precious this kind of friendship is.

  8. Posted November 14, 2010 at 10:38 pm by bluechameleon | Permalink

    Real friendship is precious…this post is heart warming :)

  9. Posted November 14, 2010 at 11:46 pm by yz | Permalink

    cool portrait

  10. Posted November 15, 2010 at 3:11 am by joshi daniel | Permalink

    beautiful expression and a lovely background with bokehs!

    • Posted November 15, 2010 at 5:03 am by admin | Permalink

      Thanks Joshi–appreciate that!

  11. Posted November 15, 2010 at 11:06 pm by Phil Vaughn | Permalink

    A fine tribute to your friendship! The photo is very nice with great b/w tone gradients. Good job!

  12. Posted November 17, 2010 at 6:42 am by PixeLuz | Permalink

    I like very much Daniel’s concentration you captured here. Great story too!

    • Posted November 17, 2010 at 8:41 am by admin | Permalink

      Thank you PixeLuz–I appreciate that!

  13. Posted November 18, 2010 at 12:40 pm by Katie | Permalink

    This brings to mind; “There is a friend who sticks closer than a brother”.

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